Sunday, November 27, 2011

What limiting beliefs am i holding on to?




That in reality i am not good enough. It doesnt matter what anyone says, what i accomplish, that in my heart of heart, i am just a looser.

It is a lack of self love. The ideal self struggling with the real self.
I like my race, height, skin color, any of these things hold me back and it shows up in my attitude.

My belief that others are judging me makes me act defensively, and totally makes me hold back and not act optimally.

That i am not at the same level as others.

Fear of failure....of poverty...of letting others down....of looking silly in front of others.

Of failing my own high expectations.

I am not good looking enough

I am not at all pretty

I am awkward

I can never have a special someone...

No one will ever love me

These hold me back. I am scared to do new things. I am scared of new relationships and people and experiences. I cling on to what i have, to the extent of sometimes damaging it. I dislike changes, because my limiting beliefs make me "settle" rather than strive. I draw these boundaries around my mind.....bind my imagination and creativity by imaginary chains.

I "believe" that i need to please others in order for them to accept me! That makes me not love them properly. I end up doing things which make them happy rather than what is right and good for them (and myself).

I "believe" that i can "buy" friendship....

I "believe" that i am not as good as others, and hence i become self effacing.

I really want to get over all of these. Please God! Now that you have made me self aware of these (and i bet there are tons more), can you please help me overcome them. Be a real person, one you created,not one influenced by the society, and evil...and sin!

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